Guide · 5 min read

Hypnotists, subjects and switches: finding the right partner

Every session has a guide and someone being guided, and plenty of guys enjoy both. Knowing which you are, and saying so clearly, is the fastest way to find the right person.

The roles

• Hypnotists guide the trance. They enjoy crafting inductions, reading how someone responds, and being trusted with another guy's mind.
• Subjects go under. They enjoy letting go, deep relaxation, and the feelings and fantasies a good hypnotist can bring out.
• Switches enjoy both, sometimes in the same session.
• The just-curious are still finding out. Everyone starts here, and that's welcome.

Write a profile that finds the right guys

• Say who you're looking for. On your profile you choose whether you want to meet subjects, hypnotists or both.
• Pick your interests. From relaxation and personal improvement to stage hypnosis, leather, muscle and erotic play, the interests you tick help the right members find you.
• Describe what you enjoy in your own words, including your experience level and your limits.
• Add a photo if you're comfortable. You decide who can see each album.

Find someone near you, or anywhere

• Search members by location, age and interests, or see who's online right now.
• Join groups for your city or region, and for the themes you're into.
• Browse the trance files and stories to find hypnotists whose style you like.
• Talk in the forums and on our private Discord to get to know people before a session.

Green flags and red flags

A good partner asks about your limits before you mention them, explains what he plans to do, and respects a no without argument. Be wary of anyone who pushes to skip the conversation, wants to meet in private straight away, or plants triggers you didn't agree to. You can block or report anyone at any time.