FAQ

Erotic hypnosis: frequently asked questions

Short answers to the questions new members ask most. For more, see our introduction to erotic hypnosis.

Is erotic hypnosis real?

Yes. Hypnosis is a well-documented state of focused attention and heightened suggestibility. Erotic hypnosis uses that state for pleasure and play between consenting adults. How strongly people respond varies, and it usually grows with practice and trust.

Can I be made to do something I don't want to?

No. In trance you stay aware and keep your values. Suggestions that clash with what you want tend to be rejected or simply wake you up. That's also why agreeing limits beforehand matters: it lets you relax into what you have agreed to.

Is it safe?

For most people, yes, with clear consent, sobriety and a proper wake-up. It isn't therapy. If you have epilepsy, a heart condition, PTSD or another serious health condition, talk to a doctor first. Read our consent and safety guide.

Do I need any experience?

None at all. Plenty of members are just curious. Our getting started guide walks you through your first trance file and your first live session.

Who can join?

Anyone aged 18 or over who's into hypnosis between guys, whether you're a hypnotist, a subject, a switch or just curious. 18+ members only.

Is it free?

Yes. Creating a profile and joining the community is free.

How do I find someone near me?

Search members by location, age and interests, see who's online, and join groups for your city or region. You can also connect with guys anywhere in the world for online sessions.

Can we meet in person?

Many members do, when they're ready. Get to know him first, check who has vouched for him with Members I Met, meet somewhere public first, and tell a friend where you'll be.

Who can see my photos and profile?

You decide who can see your profile and each of your photo albums, and you can block or report anyone at any time. Share personal details only when you're comfortable.

What's the private Discord?

Members can join our private Discord server for live chat and voice. The invite is available once you've joined.

Why am I asked to verify my age?

Some places, including the United Kingdom and some US states, legally require adult sites to verify age. See age verification.

Still curious? The best way to find out is to look around.

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